Social skills coaching

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Over the next few weeks I'm gonna make it a point to send you more emails...

...which gave me the idea to answer any questions you have.

If you ask a good question, there's a good chance it'll turn into a piece of content in this newsletter.

Ask me about whatever you want...

Could be about how to be funny, how to flirt, how to be more confident, on social skills in general

Nothing is off-limits.

Just reply to this email and it'll come straight to my inbox.

I'll check out the replies tomorrow and write some emails about the best questions.

Talk soon,

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P.S. People are constantly asking me if I've created a course before. The answer is yes.

It’s on how to never run out of things to say again

>>> Click here to check it out

Ok, people rarely ask me that. But I felt like telling you about my course. So here's me doing that.

Hi NAME

Yesterday I sent you an email asking what questions you have about improving your social skills

Do keep a lookout as I’ll be writing emails to answer them throughout the week

If you still have any other questions, you’re welcome to reply to this email (I read all the replies)

To that point, I also think we should get to know each other better

So in this email, I wanna share my social skills journey and how you can improve yours over the next few weeks!

A brief intro about me:

* I was born and raised in London

* Started martial arts when I was 6 and trained for many years to the point where I competed at a semi-professional level

* Martial arts gave me a sense of confidence internally. However, I couldn't portray myself in the right way. Thus, didn’t find much success socially

* In fact, I was pretty "weird" so many people perceived me as such

* This affected my ability to form romantic relationships or social circles which made me feel rejected and lonely

That's when I shifted my focus from martial arts to social skills

I was in uni at that time so my game plan was simple:

1. Go out with socially strong people

I’d go down to the pubs and restaurants with people whom I thought were socially competent

I’d model after them, analyse what they do, how they act, and how they speak—reverse engineering why and how it works

2. Hang out with as many "types" of people as possible

I made it a point to hang out with as many groups of people as possible

I’d be out with goths

And then hippies

Then the “cool kids” (party animals)

I believed that as long as I exposed myself to different “subcultures”, it trained me to be adaptable in various social situations

3. Go out as many times as I can

I saw improving social skills like martial arts. If I was placed in a situation 100 times, I’ll get accustomed to it where it no longer scares me + it’ll make me competent.

I did these three practices for years

Studying and learning social skills/human nature from first-hand experience

Till eventually, started finding success in my social life

Found like minded people and built a social circle of friends whom I can now journey through life with

Was able to go on many dates and eventually found someone who I love

I now run a business on social skills and built a team around me

And that's just some of the results I got from improving my social skills

Others include...

No longer having awkward moments in social situations, being able to be the center of attention without feeling anxious, being funny, and making others laugh (using my "weirdness" to my advantage)

My skills were developed further once I started coaching others

Whether it’s the single man who can’t seem to attract women into his life

Or the person who wants to use social skills to find success in the workplace

Or perhaps it's the lady who feels intimidated by interpersonal conflicts

All these unique social situations refined my understanding of social skills to where I am today.

Personally, I believe that we’re living in a time where people are more connected than ever yet we feel socially distant

I want to help people like you to get back to your human touch and be able to freely and fully express yourself socially—connecting with others while building a life that you love

As such, I now run company where we’ve helped hundreds of people thus far (over 140 5-star reviews just on TrustPilot) and will continue to do so

We mainly do so through three of our programs

* Our workshops

* Online course (how to not run out of things to say)

* And one-to-one coaching sessions (most effective)

I’ve made them all affordable (compared to what you see out there) so that most people can get access to the right information

Anyhow, I appreciate you being here in this newsletter!

I’m excited to share more of my learnings and knowledge to help you improve your social life

Stay tuned for the next email

Till then,

name

Founder and Head Coach

company

P.S.

Forgot to mention—if at any point you feel like these emails are no longer relevant to you, you’re more than welcome to hit the unsubscribe link at the bottom of my emails. No hard feelings :)

FNAME,

Body language is “useless”.

Dead “useless”

UNLESS…

You include this one important element

Now I know I'm trampling on sacred ground by saying this, but I think you will agree with me when you hear why I say this.

Here’s the deal…

You’ve probably already gone onto YouTube or read a bunch of books on “how to improve your social skills” and they’ve already talked about all there is to know about body language

You’ve probably already heard the saying

80% of our communication is done through body language

YET…

You still struggle with social interactions

You still struggle to be the free-flowing, confident, and funny person that you wish you could be (and that I KNOW you can be)

Even when you practice all those body language techniques, you still feel like something is missing

Like you’re faking it and it doesn’t come natural

You use your body language to appear as a socially free-flowing and charismatic person, but you’re still NOT

You’re just acting as if.

And that’s why I say, body language is useless…

But that’s until you first master one thing…

Your emotions

When you have emotional mastery, the body language and words come out naturally

Think about it…

When you go into a social interaction, you face some anxiety. Then you start thinking about what you should say, how you should say it, and you then get conscious of how you’re standing. After which the voice in your head starts producing negative thoughts like “what are they thinking of me? Am I being weird now?”

This is all the mental game that affects your emotions

And when negative emotions overwhelm you, you start to feel your body heating up, blood flowing up to your head and your heart pounding rapidly—affecting how you act—making you act weird

See what I mean?

Again, nothing personal against all these other social skills coaches teaching body language

But someone's got to stand up and tell it like it is

Body language is essential

But not until you fix your ability to master your emotions (the head game)

If you don’t, you’ll forever be fighting an uphill battle in building up your social skills to achieve the life that you want.

This brings me to remind you…

Here in company, we have social skills personal coaching to help with this

It’s over the many years where I’ve experimented with my own social experiences and clients that I’ve formulated a way to help you go from being socially clueless to a smooth-talking and charismatic person

You can book one free coaching session with the link below

(YOUR WEBSITE LINK)

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